"Boys Will Be Men" by Paul Kivel. Great book for getting boys "out of the box" whether single or dual parenting & regardless of parent's sexual orientation.
The Courage to Raise Good Men, by Olga Silverstein. Critiques about the pressure on mothers to push their sons away. Excellent.
Crisis Intervention Manual - The Manual Contents: Chapter 1 Research and clinical basis for comprehensive district-wide crisis plan. Foundation for establishing violence prevention and physically/emotionally safe schools. Chapter 2 Components of a good crisis intervention plan, including stages of development. Chapter 3 Members of the crisis team, roles, responsibilities, recommendations for inservice. Chapter 4 Teams in action; system of communication; making announcements to staff, students, parents; preventing emotional contagion; guidelines for managing quiet room. Chapter 5 Psychological first aid; being a safe person; tasks of mourning; signs of distress in students by developmental stages; healthy responses; unhealthy responses; dysfunctional responses; dysfunctional families and unresolved losses; responses to trauma; listening and responding to the bereaved. NUMEROUS HANDOUTS THAT CAN BE REPRODUCED FOR STAFF INSERVICE OR USED TO EDUCATE PARENTS. Chapter 6 Critical incident stress debriefing; symptoms of chronic stress and post traumatic stress; suggestions for self care for staff, school based model that empowers schools to meet the needs of students and staff trauma responses in children. Chapter 7 Principle of triage; risk factor analysis; sample protocols for all types of crisis including NATURAL DISASTERS, VIOLENCE, HOSTAGE SITUATIONS, SUICIDES, MENTAL HEALTH EMERGENCIES; SUDDEN DEATHS, TERMINAL ILLNESS, AND MORE. Chapter 8 Emphasis on comprehensive approach that incorporates violence and suicide prevention and life skills acquisition such as conflict resolution, assertive communication, healthy boundaries, anger management, healthy bonding. Support services for students and staff. Protocols for attendance at wakes and funerals, memorial services, and other activities that permit release of feelings. Chapter 9 Practice drills; incidents for brainstorming for staff development. Chapter 10 Support group leadership skills; ACTIVITIES THAT CAN BE REPRODUCED AND CONDUCTED WITH STUDENTS either in the classroom or in a support group. Chapter 11 Evaluating teams. List of resources Chapter 12 References http://www.renew.net/manual.htm
Cross-Cultural Perspectives on Youth and Violence; Meredith W. Watts, ed. (Stamford, CN: JAI Press, 1998). The book brings together authors from a variety of national settings (e.g., United States, Germany, Japan, Brazil) and disciplines (Sociology, Political Science, Educational, Psychology) to focus on questions of youth and violence. Featured topics are gangs, school bullying, violence by youth groups against foreigners in Europe, and violence done to youth by authorities and adult groups (as in Brazil). A concluding chapter deals with the perceptions of United States youth about violence in their everyday lives and the potential impact of those perceptions on their sense of community; a variety of possible intervention and pedagogical strategies are also discussed and evaluated.
Curriculum - "War: who does anything against it?" An information package for writing a paper or giving a presentation, for pupils of 10-15 years old. (Read it as a PdF file http://www.oneworld.org/euconflict/publicat/war.pdf 3,4 MB!) Download the Acrobat Reader for free! http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep.html
Curriculum - Nonviolence and the Ethics of Social Action, University
of Colorado. Here is a web site that
profiles a peace course developed using the service learning model.
This course is an examination of the phenomenon of nonviolence as a critical
dynamic of social action and social change. Major emphases include: the origins
of nonviolence and violence, the logic of nonviolence and the illogic of
violence, theories and methods of nonviolence throughout history, contemporary
applications of nonviolence, nonviolent conflict resolution, and the ethics of
action intended to produce social change. Although the dominant perspective in
the course is sociological, it is approached overall from an interdisciplinary
perspective. Course objectives include familiarity with: the sociological
phenomenon of nonviolence; theories of conflict, social change, power, and
nonviolence; religious nonviolence and pacifism; secular nonviolence; the
nonviolence of Henry David Thoreau, C. Mohandas K. Gandhi, and Martin Luther
King, Jr.; an historical overview of nonviolent conflicts; several case studies
in nonviolence, including: Gandhian nonviolence in India, nonviolence in the
United States - e.g., the civil rights and peace movements - nonviolent social
change and transformation in Europe in the late 1980s; and prospects for
nonviolent social change in the 21st century.
http://csf.colorado.edu/sl/syllabi/peace/crews2025-96.html
Domestic Violence Information Manual - http://www.infoxchange.net.au/wise/DVIM/index.htm
Forty Early Childhood quick reference cards dealing with
sibling rivalry, death, grief, bedtime fears, etc. are currently available from
our Web site at The Ohio Commission on Dispute Resolution and Conflict
Management
http://www.state.oh.us/cdr/eccards/earlychildhoodcards.htm .
Early Childhood Cards, Learning and Practicing Skills of Peace
Through Every Day Conflicts. Practical activities and resources for
families, teachers and other caregivers. Listed below is a sample of quick
reference cards describing practical activities and resources for families,
teachers, and other care givers to
use in training young children in skills of peace. Ages pre-school to 2nd grade.
To order these cards contact the Commission directly at 614-752-9595 or submit
your Request by e-mail. Cards also available in Spanish. (Note, go to the
site to copy these cards on your computer, they are only a couple of clicks
away.) Anger and Aggression, Disabilities, School, Art Activities, Divorce
and Separation, Security Objects, Bad Day, Dressing, Self-Esteem, Bad Language,
Fears, Sharing, Bath Time, Fears, Feelings and Emotions, Sickness, Nighttime
Fears, Lying, Stealing, Dealing With Misbehavior, Eating, Stress, Activities for
Brothers and Sisters, Mistakes, Tantrums, Biting, Nap Time, Time Out, Preventing
Conflicts Between Children, New Baby, Transitions, Cultural Diversity, Problem
Solving, Whining and Nagging, Death, Safety, Work. This resource is an
outcome of a cooperative effort initiated by the Ohio Commission on Dispute
Resolution and Conflict Management, with Ohio Head Start Association, Inc. and
the Ohio Department of Education - Division of Early Childhood.
Friendly Resources for Teaching Peace http://www.mph.lm.com/planw96.html#s3
From a review by Joanie Connors: I would like to recommend a book I just found out
about although it is three years old. I probably missed it because it is written by
family therapists (I take no journals in family therapy), but I think this is a landmark
book about the origins of human violence. The book is "Ghosts from the
Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence" by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredith
Wiley (1997, New York: Atlantic Monthly Press). The book appears to be heavily
rooted in the scientific literature about violence, and it combines research from numerous
disciplines in a way that brings us forward a notch in the understanding of violence.
In "Ghosts from the Nursery" the authors assert that the root of violent
behavior is in the first 33 months of life. She presents evidence that early
chemical and physical insults to the fetus' (prenatal exposure to alcohol and drugs),
infant's and toddler's minds alter their cognitive processes enough (high prevalence of
ADHD & ADD) that they are later unable to learn about, understand and cope with life's
difficulties, whether those difficulties be the loss of social face or a habitually
violent home life. They then resort to the black and white logic of violent tactics
they've seen modeled either in their home or in the society at large. The authors
make a plea for us to become a more compassionate society that values our babies and young
children enough to promote policies focusing on improving their welfare. Appendix A
includes a list of "Factors associated with Violent Behavior that can be Modifies or
Prevented by Early Intervention" (pp. 299-300). These include:
Biological Factors
Prenatal (0-7 months gestation)
-Teratogens (drugs, alcohol, nicotine)
-Malnutrition
-Genetic factors
-Chronic maternal stress
-Minor physical anomalies
Perinatal (-2 months to +1 month)
-Delivery complications, birth trauma, head injury
-Prematurity
-Low birth weight
Postnatal (1-24 months)
-Accidents, head injuries
-Nutritional factors
General Factors
-Low verbal IQ
-Attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder
-Post-traumatic stress
-Exposure to toxins
Familial Factors
-Parental mental illness
-Criminal father
-Low maternal IQ
-Multiple breaks in caregivers; lack of consistent caregiver in early life
-Maternal rejection
-Maternal depression
-Parental substance abuse
-Child abuse
-Child neglect
-Parental discord
-Ineffective discipline
Larger Environmental Factors
-Living below community economic norm
-Modeling of violent solutions to problems by key models
-Modeling of weapon use in community; access to weapons
-Unavailability of involved adult who teaches values, and values child
-Modeling of alcohol and drug use to deal with problems
-Violence in entertainment; television, video games, movies, music and toys
This is the most comprehensive list of factors associated with violence that I have seen.
Another appendix lists educational approaches at numerous levels to address these
factors.
THE GRIP OF DEATH* "A study of Modern Money, Debt Slavery, and Destructive Economics"
by Jon Carpenter Publishing, Charlbury Oxfordshire, 1998 ISBN: 1897766408. * Mort-gage(O.F.) "A pledge unto death" Oxford Dictionary. The two key points of the book are : 1) fractional reserve banking debt-money (that must pay back interest) drives the world's corporate growth model indefinitely, and 2) the creation of this money is in the hands of private profit-seekers, instead of the government, which is wrong.Human Rights Advocacy Kit - In recognition of the 50th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Free Speech TV and several partner organizations have created a Human Rights Advocacy Kit, which is available both online and in print. The online version is at: http://www.freespeech.org/js/intro.html. The Advocacy Kit supplements Just Solutions, a human rights TV series which is being broadcast on public and local cable stations. The ITrain Collective, a multi-cultural, global group of Internet trainers, have created a set of Internet training materials, available on the Web and via email. Although the materials were prepared for use in developing countries, they may be useful for instructors and students anywhere who are either new to the Internet or have intermediate-level skills. The training makes use of interactive learning, allows for flexible course planning, and can be customized on the basis of gender, culture, individual needs, or interests. The materials can be used by instructors, or by students learning on their own. Information is available on the web at: http://unganisha.idrc.ca/itrain, or by email at: itrain@unganisha.idrc.ca.
INNODATA databank which contains descriptions of innovative projects in education including many devoted to peace education and education for international understanding. INNODATA is available on the Internet at http://www.ibe.unesco.org/Inf_Doc/Innodata/inno.htm
Internet Resources on Genocide and Mass Killings http://www.ess.uwe.ac.uk/genocide.htm is an extensive compilation of primary materials and annotated links related to "twentieth-century genocidal and mass man-made killing occurrences." Divided into fifteen sections, subject coverage includes topics such as The Jewish Holocaust, War Crimes and Criminals, Yugoslavia and Kosovo, among others. Most of the original documents in the compilation have been uploaded to the site, facilitating navigation and research. Documents not residing at the site are linked via succinct annotations. The compilation is searchable and updated continuously by its creator Dr. Stuart D. Stein, Senior Lecturer in Sociology and Social Psychology at the University of West England.
Intervention Center - resources for alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling, computer addiction, other self-destructive behavior. 'Helping people accept help'. http://www.intervention.com/
Kids Helping Kids Activities and Resources for Teaching Peace (UNICEF)http://www.unicefusa.org/issues96/sep96/guide/english.html
The Loss of Happiness in Market Democracies -
Robert E. Lane. 2000 Politics/Psychology. 480 pp. 23 illus. 6 1/8 x 9 1/4The Manifesto 2000 for a Culture of Peace and Non-Violence (UNESCO) was written by the Nobel Prize Peace Laureats, in order to create a sense of responsibility starting on a personal level; it is not an appeal or petition addressed to a higher authority. It is the responsibility of each and every individual to put into practice the values, attitudes and forms of behaviour which inspire the culture of peace. Everyone can contribute to this aim within their family, their area, their town, their region and their country by promoting non-violence, tolerance, dialogue, reconciliation, justice and solidarity on a daily basis. The Manifesto 2000 has been made public in Paris on March 4th 1999, and is open to signatures for the wider public all throughout the world. The goal is to present 100 million signatures to the United Nations General Assembly meeting at the turn of the millennium in September 2000. To make your pledge (and you can print out a version worth framing) go to http://manifesto2000.unesco.org/ and click on the language of your choice.
Martial Arts for Peace - The martial arts have a tremendously creative
potential for teaching young people to resolve conflict peacefully and create fine moral
character. Society is crying out for help in these troubled times, and the martial arts
can be an intelligent and effective way to prepare our children to cope with today's
challenges. To meet these urgent personal and social challenges of increased violence and
the deterioration of ethical values, we need a different education beyond the teaching of
academics, one that can teach our children the skills to resolve conflict and build
character. Martial Arts for Peace can be this education for peace and social
understanding.
If they are
to meet this obligation, martial arts schools of the 21st century will need highly trained
Martial Arts for Peace Educators who have the necessary skills and resources to prepare
their students to cope with these challenges. New Martial Arts for Peace training programs
and innovative Martial Arts for Peace curricula will need to be developed in the evolution
of these arts from self-defense and competitive sport to the greater mission of a peaceful
and spiritual discipline that can address the social and individual ills of humankind.
Martial Arts for Peace can teach the virtues of compassion, love, wisdom and respect, and
the fine qualities that build a strong and honorable character in young people so that
they may contribute to creating a more peaceful and gentler world. The original martial
arts of peace that became, over time, the arts of war have paradoxically the
transformative potential to again be peaceful and healing arts but only with the right
vision and the right means to carry out this vision. We have to begin educating ourselves
to be Martial Artists for Peace to make our dreams - our visions - a reality. It is those
visionaries who put their dreams into practice who will elevate the martial arts to their
rightful place in the education of our children and in society as a means to resolve
conflict, build character, and create peace. Web site http://www.atriumsoc.org/MartialArts/map.html .
Contact The Atrium Society, Box 816, Middlebury, VT, USA, 05753, telephone
1-800-848-6021, email atrium@atriumsoc.org
Mental Disorders, Depression Set to Rise, UN Says from http://news.excite.com/news/r/010110/15/health-mentalhealth . Updated 3:01 PM ET January 10, 2001 By Stephanie Nebehay GENEVA (Reuters) - Mental and neurological disorders--ranging from depression to Alzheimer's and epilepsy--strike 400 million people globally and are set to surge in the next two decades, the World Health Organisation (WHO) said on Tuesday. The United Nations health agency predicted that by 2020, depression would jump to be the second greatest cause of death and disability worldwide, following ischemic heart disease. WHO officials attributed the projected rise in depression to factors including more stressful lifestyles, poverty and violence. Alzheimer's disease, a debilitating dementia that hits the elderly, is expected to increase as people live longer. They spoke at a news briefing to launch WHO's 2001 campaign aimed at removing myths and stigmas linked to such disorders, whose slogan is "Stop exclusion--Dare to care". "This (campaign) is overdue, given that mental health is a major cause of disability, family and community distress and loss of production," said WHO's Dr. Derek Yach. Dr. Benedetto Saraceno, director of WHO's department of mental health and substance dependence, said: "Mental health disorders, neurological diseases is a major public health concern worldwide. There is a common myth that mental health problems are those of rich, industrialised countries, a luxury." "But mental and neurological problems are equally important in rich and poor countries," he added. Some 400 million people today suffer from mental and neurological disorders worldwide, according to Saraceno. "Unipolar major depression is today considered fifth in the ranking of major causes of disability and it is expected to jump to second place in 2020," he said. At present, depression is the fifth leading cause of death and disability, while ischemic heart disease trails in sixth place, according to the Geneva-based WHO. The table is currently topped by acute lower respiratory infections, according to the WHO, which says infectious diseases are generally expected to fall. Depression, often genetic, hits roughly twice as many women as men, according to WHO experts. The Americas and Western Pacific regions have the most victims of depression, with the lowest rates in Africa, according to Saraceno. "Surveys in Brazil, Zimbabwe, India and Chile show the more impoverishment--measured by hunger, level of debt and education--the higher the prevalence of common mental disorders," said Yach, a South African. Mental and neurological disorders represent 11% of the "global burden of disease", a figure based on mortality and disability, according to Saraceno. The figure is expected to represent 14% in 2020, he said. "The good news is that mental health treatment does not require very expensive infrastructure." "We know that 70 percent of those suffering from major depression can fully recover if properly treated," he added. "We can expect a decrease in suicides if we are properly treating depressed people." Globally, there are one million suicides a year out of a total of 10 million attempts, he added. The top 10 countries for suicide are composed of all former Soviet Union states, led by Russia, where many are reeling in economic and social upheaval. Schizophrenia, a chronic disorder, affects 45 million people worldwide, with about half of the victims achieving full "social recovery", according to Saraceno. He praised India and China for their programmes for treating and supporting schizophrenic patients, combing use of generic psychotropic drugs and human resources. "Different diseases are prominent in different regions, with one exception. Schizophrenia is ubiquitous--you will find the same rate of schizophrenia in Los Angeles and central Africa, probably because there is a very strong genetic component."
People Building Peace - 30 Success Stories from around the World. This publication is an initiative of the European Centre for Conflict Prevention, the International Fellowship of Reconciliation (IFOR) and the State of the World Forum. It provides an overview of the activities of communities working for peace, offers a positive approach to the question of how people can live with one other, and clearly shows how individuals and small groups can make a real difference. http://www.euconflict.org/
A POLICE REFERENCE MANUAL ON CRIME PREVENTION AND DIVERSION WITH YOUTH - This new manual builds upon information in the Police Reference Manual on Youth and violence provided to you in 1994. Like this publication, this manual is intended for both front-line officers and senior police managers. It provides front-line police with useful information to assist them in dealing with crime and safety concerns at the community level, and, equally important, it gives police managers the information they need to support community-based prevention efforts of front-line officers. http://www.sgc.gc.ca/epub/pol/e199675/e199675.htm
Progressive Letter Writing Cooperative - Would you like a cooperative way to get your voice heard in Washington? It's free! Progressive Secretary sends out progressive email letters to Congress, the President, and other officials on peace, ecology, civil rights and other issues. The letters are suggested by participants in the cooperative and are sent to you as a proposal. If you tell us to "send", then the letters are sent to your Congress people and others noted in the proposal over your signature and return address. A report is sent to you. If you like, you can send the letters yourself. Letters are not sent without your specific OK. Your name and email are never given out except to recipients of your letters. There is no charge for this. We volunteer our time because Jim Harris jim@progressivesecretary.org and Pat Murphy pat@progressivesecretary.org are Quakers and long-time activists, and we believe in helping progressive people make their voices heard on important issues. There are no advertisements or other annoyances. You can cancel at any time. Some current letters include: Seattle Release WTO detainees and apologize; Cut Military Budget for 2000; Letter to President to Lift Iraq Sanctions; President listen to WTO protests; Guanajuato Keep pressure on Congeladora; Canada Oppose expansion of WTO; Canada: Do Not Burn MOX fuel in Ontario Reactors; Clemency for Leonard Peltier; Review Comprehensive Test Ban Treaty; Oppose Istook Amendment; Support Feingold Bill to Abolish Federal Death Penalty; Stop Eviction of Dine'h at Black Mesa; Cease Bombing of Vieques; End the Cuban Embargo; Oppose Military Aid To Colombia; Persecution of Women in Afghanistan; Stop the Arms Race in Space; Pakistan Women Honor Killings; Grant an Evidentiary Hearing for Mumia; Change Florida Death Penalty Policies; Denial Of Financial Aid Is Racial Discrimination. Web site http://www.progressivesecretary.org/
Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life
of Boys by Dan
Kindlon, PH.D./Michael Thompson, PH.D.
Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood, by
William Pollack. This is the brand-new one that I was impressed with. It
actually critiques the stereotypes and tells how dangerous they are.
Resources for Teaching Peace, Tolerance and Understanding Of Differences
http://www.crcs.k12.ny.us/es/Stranger'sShoes/PTresource.htm
Roots of Violence in the U.S. Culture: A Diagnosis Towards Healing
by Alain J. Richard, 1-57733-043-9, 176 pp, paper, $ 14.95. Today, our culture promotes an alarming trend toward ever increasing acts of violence. When our children kill each other over articles of clothing or gangs murder for turf, it is a glaring sign that our youth have not learned to respect and revere life. What kind of future leaders are we creating? In addition to our legacy of violence, our culture has created a strong market (materialistic) economy with an insatiable desire for money and possessions. We place more value on acquiring wealth than on spending time with our children, family, and friends. Roots of Violence exposes the origins and current causes of the underlying, explosive rage pervasive in our culture today. Understanding this is the first step toward healing our society. For a copy, you can email chris@netshel.net or call 1-800-643-0765. Please include your address.Safe Within is an ever-changing site that provides news and information relating to you and your family's safety, security, health, and sense of well-being. The format is interactive, SOLUTION driven, multimedia and updated DAILY. Along with valuable content, you will find various news groups, drawings, "Today's Safety News", "Top Tips", hyperlinked Resource lists, a listserv, and many opportunities for YOU to contribute and be recognized. Regardless of where you are or what you may be doing, it is our hope to make you feel more Safe Within your world. http://www.safewithin.com/ International travel safety reference http://www.safewithin.com/travelsafe/travel.internat.cgi
UNESCO Electronic Document Management System http://unesdoc.unesco.org/ulis/UNESCO publications: To live together: shaping new attitudes to peace through education, edited by Daniel S. Halperin. A summary and the table of contents are to be found on the IBE Web site at http://www.ibe.unesco.org/Publications/halperin.htm
William Oliver, The Violent Social World of Black Men. Jossey-Bass Publishers, San Francisco, 1994. ISBN: 0-7879-4305-3. In 1992, 94 percent of black murder victims were killed by members of their own race. Homicide rates among black men are generally six to seven times the rates among white men. Homicide is the leading cause of death for black males ages 15-34, and every homicide in this group there are 100 acts of nonfatal violent assault. In this important and timely work, William Oliver offers penetrating new insights into one of our society's greatest problems-interpersonal violence among black men. The book can be ordered through the Chapters link on our home page.
Youth Violence and Youth Gangs: Responding to Community Concerns - Over the past several years, there has been an increase in reported youth violence and youth gang activity in both large and small Canadian communities. Public pressure and concern for community safety has made this a major issue in many communities. The Federation of Canadian Municipalities (FCM) has responded by initiating a focused research project and a national consultation on youth violence and youth gangs in Canada. FCM, in conjunction with the federal departments of the Solicitor General and Justice, undertook this research and consultation. The report can be viewed at http://www.sgc.gc.ca/epub/pol/e199456/e199456.htm Youth Violence Theme Page - This "Theme Page" has links to two types of resources related to the study of Youth Violence. Students and teachers will find curricular resources (information, content...) to help them learn about this topic. In addition, there are also links to instructional materials (lesson plans) which will help teachers provide instruction in this theme. http://www.cln.org/themes/youth_violence.htmlZNet - A community of people concerned about Social Change. This web site contains tons of information. Web site: http://www.zmag.org/ . Email sysop@zmag.org

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