Experience: A Revolutionary New Approach to Personal Transformation"
By Dr, John F. Demartini
Published By Hay House Inc. May 2002
[The following is what I
highlighted during my read of this excellent book -- I recommend it on my
Top-ten List of Peace resources. My purpose in providing them is to
interest you, the reader, and hope that you will obtain and read the complete
work. To properly understand the highlights, you need to read the book to
put them in the proper context.]
Foreword by Blanca Diez, M.D., P.A.
to Mohondas K. Gandhi, “if your wishes are pure, then they become true”.
thoughts…get deformed with dysfunctional thoughts, feelings, or beliefs.
The Collapse Process transforms thoughts, beliefs, and feelings that were
once deformed or dysfunctional into thoughts that are in perfect symmetry
and order. As we transform out thoughts, we transform our feelings and
transform our life.
the pages that follow, you will learn a formula for materializing your
dreams, discover the secrets of opening your heart beyond anything you have
imagined, find out how to increase your love and appreciation for every
aspect of life, receive profound insights on how to create more fulfilling
and caring relationships, reawaken your birthright as a true genius,
transcend any fears and illusions surrounding the myth of death, and
reconnect with your true mission and purpose for life on Earth.
challenged, and changed…
Chapter 1: The Essence of Life
truth that every single one of us has greatness and immortal genius inside.
important to follow your vision, intuition, and inspiration so you can
achieve what you’re here to accomplish in life.
common theme among all people: Everyone wants to love and be loved, to appreciate and be
appreciated, and everyone wants to live his or her dreams.
science of love and appreciation…
Science and religion:
goal is for you to open your heart wider than you may have ever done before,
to allow you to get clearer about your purpose in life, to help you become
more inspired about this magnificent universe we get to work in, and to
enable your human mind to awaken to its divine birthright.
never come across anything more magnificent than the human body, brain, and
you ever read or listened to something and gotten tears in your eyes and
felt inspired? Those tears are an infallible clue that something meaningful
and important for you is being revealed. Don’t ignore these times—keep a
log of those moments, those insights and tears, and you will find a story
being told by your intuitive spirit, a story linked to your destiny. It’s
a gift from the part of you that knows, to the part of you that wonders. So
write them down.
Gratitude is the Key:
we see the underlying patterns and order in the universe, we come to an
illuminating state of gratitude.
is the key to growth and fulfillment
those who are grateful, more is given. To those who are not, more is taken
has ever happened or can happen to you that is not a gift and a blessing,
but it’s difficult to be thankful until you find the hidden benefit in
what may seem at first to be a negative event.
only two things that the world can’t take away from you: your love and
the most terrible events always contain hidden blessings. The masters know
this great truth and remain undisturbed by events…
greater wisdom recognizes that blessings can also trigger a crisis. When we
truly understand that, we’re less likely to be upset about difficulties or
elated about opportunities; we remain centered no matter what happens around us.
That is one of the secrets of self-mastery.
is neither pessimism nor optimism… It is “gratefulism,” and that is
both wisdom and true power.
this minute you have everything you need to fulfill your life
you’re truly grateful, you have simply woken up to it
The Great Discovery:
Great Discovery: At any moment of your life, you will never be put down
without being lifted up, nor lifted up without being put down. Positive and
negative, good and bad, support and challenge, peace and war—all come
together in pairs. They are simultaneous and perfectly balanced, and that is
what makes up the divine order.
of us lives in duality…We have a part that lifts us up and another that
puts us down.
one ever victimizes us; they just reflect
treat you exactly the way you unconsciously treat yourself.
of the most powerful ways to transform your life is to become
consciously aware of your beliefs and feelings about yourself.
objective is to have you become aware that you’re surrounded by
magnificent love every moment of your life
love emerges from a state of emotional balance. One of the purposes of
having a partner is to maintain a loving equilibrium. If one partner is
manic and up, the other partner helps bring them back down into balance. If
one is down and depressed, the other will help lift them up. If one partner
becomes cocky, the other brings them down. If one becomes deflated, the
other helps them up. That’s how relationships work. This balancing act
maintains the divine order, or true love.
would get humbled because we’re not
here to be right, we’re here to be love. These two sides make up true
wasn’t present with my family
would humble myself and not walk into the house until I felt centered and
any true science that’s reproducible, if you do that, you will repeatedly
have a loving partner at home.
moment you realize this balance and observe the perfect equilibrium around
you, you have become liberated. You know that the world is perfectly
balanced, both within and without. Only then are you able to manage your own
life and no longer be controlled by praise and blame. You begin to forge
your own destiny and allow the enlightened part of you to direct your life,
rather than let yourself be run by the part of you that hopes and fears.
we begin to see the balance everywhere, we wake up to the possibility that
maybe there’s a hidden order and intelligence behind it all.
is made up of two sides: support and challenge.
someone can make them weak and dependent, and that challenging them can make
them strong and independent.
won’t allow anything but equilibrium
and blame are equilibrated…
for elusive, one-sided events in a two-sided universe is the root of
people’s so-called suffering. When you embrace the balance and the truth,
love surrounds you.
The Master Dance:
a master, there us no such thing as attacks.
we can understand and embrace everything that comes our way, in the same
spirit as this gentleman, knowing that it is not an attack, but an
opportunity to refine and expand ourselves, we can turn our lives into the
same masterful dance.
can run your life. The second you allow yourself to get elated or depressed
about other people’s perceptions of you, or even your own illusory
perceptions of yourself, you become disempowered…But the second you bring
your mind to balanced awareness, you have the power of divinity working
you open your heart to Divine Intelligence, miracles happen in your life. Miracles
are nothing but natural laws put into action by beings who understand their
application. When you’re poised and centered, you have
power…because you honor yourself and your life enough to embrace it all,
the highs and the lows are in perfect balance.
is two-sided. When you deeply understand this great truth, you get to be
surrounded by love every minute of your life.
everyone who helped you today.
to sleep with a grateful, open heart is a powerful healing practice. Your
dreams will become more inspiring and you will awaken in the morning with a
lighter state of mind.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
I am magnificent just the way I am
I listen to my immortal nature, and it knows
My true nature is love and wisdom. Wisdom is the instantaneous
recognition that crisis is a blessing.
Life is a gift. Thank you.
Chapter 2: Lighten Up
true nature…is nothing but love and light…
opens up to you the minute you unlock it with the key of gratitude.
you recognize and attune with your Divine Source by balancing your mind, you
have access to an infinite energy.
chapter is about how to access that infinite energy…this chapter may be
the most challenging as well as the most rewarding.
disappearance is called, “collapsing wave function.”
universe with intelligence is pointless…intelligence could persist for
eternity—perhaps in the form of a cloud of charged particles (of
light)—through shrewd conservation of energy.”
Being Here Now:
human consciousness, when two complementary emotions or those with equal but
opposite charges are brought together and synthesized into perfect balance,
the emotions annihilate each other and birth the feeling of love and light.
positive and negative particles in the universe are created simultaneously,
in perfect one-to-one balance, but your senses misperceive local imbalances
and can mislead you. Every time you splinter yourself into positive and
negative emotions, you scatter your light, dissipate your energy potential,
and disempower your true and centered being. In this way, you separate
yourself into past and future, and you’re no longer present. When you
bring your perceptions back into balance and become aware of how things
truly are, you reverse the
past holds memory, is emotionally based, and is dominated by the emotion
labeled guilt. The future holds
imagination, is also emotionally based, and is dominated by the emotion
The loving essence of your true spirit is spaceless and timeless presence.
Anytime you experience a future or past emotion, you dissipate your
potential energy into a kinetic motion. But in a state of presence and love,
you regenerate your kinetic energy and birth a new quantum of creative
potential. The purpose of this book is to help you take your imbalanced
emotions and reintegrate them back into the enlightening potentiality of
Mothers and Fathers:
you love, the person becomes present with you…
of the most profound things you will ever experience is a true open heart in
the presence of the one you love.
is a parallel spiritual world; and your loved ones, wherever they are, will
be there with you.
subatomic particles suck as protons, electrons, neutrons, quarks, and mesons
are all actually waves.
idea of having a solid physical body is an illusion of your senses. Your
body is made up of nothing but electromagnetically resonant waves.
are made up of pure vibrating light waves, which physicists call quanta.
talking about your being, your
physical nature, as vibration. There are laws that govern those vibrations.
When you apply those laws, you can understand what happens in life, and
understanding is crucial to your illumination experience.
way the universe makes sure you learn love. The second you see more
positives than negatives, you attract a situation where you see more
negatives than positives to get them back in balance.
All phenomena are universally full-quantum.
That implies there must be no such
thing as happiness without sadness, or sadness without happiness.
sad and happy.
their lives to a fantasy of what they thought it should be, and that’s
where their happiness was. It was hidden in their virtual reality. But if I
took them through The Quantum Collapse Process and merged the two emotional
phases together, both disappeared and grateful love and light were birthed.
in the middle between positive and negative emotions, between like and
dislike, is the core of human experience, and it is nothing other than love.
is a full-quantum state…massless, chargeless, spaceless, and timeless,
which by definition is spiritual and unconditional.
is light, and it comes in full-quantum states. God is full-quantum light.
“the synthesis or perfect blending of all dualistic perceptions, the
summation of all polarities.”
dualities, when totally synthesized, are love.
you acknowledge life’s perfection by embracing both of its sides, you
experience unconditional love.
a dark time, the eye begins to see.” –Theodore Roethke
can’t escape your full-quantum.
is the key that opens the gateway of the heart
makes you present with whatever
is not possible when you deny half of your existence.
book is not about the myth of happiness; it’s about the truth of balanced
perception that brings you back to love.
Pain and Pleasure:
and pleasure remain balanced at every moment, but you selectively attend to
one side or the other and feel pleasure or pain accordingly.
have the capacity at any given moment to realize this pleasure-pain
partnership and bring your mind into balance. Doing so will release the love
and light that lie dormant within you.
is simply a state of nonseparation, where you perceive no division
between yourself and some aspect of the world…wholeness and oneness…
what sets you above the ordinary and makes you extraordinary. To the degree you tap in to that state, your
dreams are in your hands. You have access to an infinitude of possibility
because you’re now tuning in to your infinite potential through the
balance of love.
the soul and the human heart of the individual is a core of radiant love.
is the unified field theory… When you can tap in to that source, whatever
you dream is yours. In that state, you know why you’re here, you’re
filled with certainty, and your mind becomes clear and focused. When you
feel worthy of having your dreams, they appear… Whatever you think
about—and thank about—you bring about.
have the power to create what you imagine, in the direct proportion to how
much love and gratitude you have in life, because your self-worth allows you
to magnetize and attract those things into your life and make your visions
real. When you know that you are loved no matter what, you have great power.
Turning Lead into Gold:
you see both particle sides, pleasure and pain equally, the lightbulb turns
need that balance of support and challenge, of positive and negative
feedback, to grow and evolve.
find the balance of duality. The degree to which we appreciate both sides
and embrace life is the degree to which we become enlightened.
The Perfection of Two Sides:
people think that when they get something else, life will get better, but
that kind of thinking only transforms the positives and negatives into new
forms…if you think something will give you more positives than negatives,
you’re living with an illusion.
you don’t see the
perfection of where you are, you take the pure energy of inspiration and
dissipate it in emotional reactions.
evolution occurs at the border between attraction and repulsion, pleasure
and pain, order and chaos, like and dislike. Between the extremes lie the
light, love, and true power to
create the life you aspire to.
emotions are lies. The truth is love, but emotions are half-truths,
distortions, and lies… We go through life merely living instead of
embracing it all. We oscillate between our positive and negative emotions
because we don’t love.
don’t have command over anything that you have emotions about; you only
have command over the things you love. Love is a perfectly equilibrated,
divinely ordained state of consciousness that’s available to you 24 hours
a day if you just balance your mind and don’t let it go off on emotional
expression and repression of emotion will run your life. Love is not
an emotion; it transcends emotion.
say that love is blind, but it’s not; it sees clearly. Emotions are blind
because they see only one side. When you run your life by infatuations
and resentments, you disempower yourself.
gift of this planet is that you’re surrounded by love, because the
definition of love is both sides of experience: praise and reprimand,
support and challenge, being lifted up and put down simultaneously. That is
you see and honor this balance, your life is transformed; you are liberated.
is a divine justice system, and you can’t screw it up.
divine justice system will do whatever it takes to equilibrate you.
The Bars Are Ours:
that I have fulfillment. I appreciate my position in life. Thank you God.”
already are perfection…the duality is perfection…
heart is more powerful than the intellect in this area. It knows the truth
and waits patiently, while the mind slowly comes to an enlightening
understanding. The rest of this book is devoted to waking your mind up to
the perfection that already exists, so your heart can come forward and
direct your life.
you’re still judging yourself, beating yourself up for something you’ve
done or not done, it’s time to look deeply and see how it served you and
others and get on with your life.
up and stop punishing yourself over any illusions.
are truly worthy of love. Say this affirmation: “No matter what I have done or have not done, I am worthy of
love.” When every single cell of your body gets it, so will you, and
so will your world. When we love we step into the full quantum state, we
align ourselves with the forces of life, and the power of the whole universe
is suddenly behind us.
was not one person or event that didn’t equilibrate you and wake you up.
you know everything serves you, what can stop you?
Words of Wisdom and Power:
I am made of light. What can harm me?
I am worthy of having all of my dreams come true.
How is this helping me fulfill my destiny?
Love is all there; everything else is illusion.
No matter what I have done, or not done, I am worthy of love.
Chapter 3: Living Dreams
moment one definitely commits oneself, then
moves too… Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness
has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”
all have a mission for life.
is the key to fulfillment. Gratitude and self-worth come hand in hand, and
great worth comes from gratefully fulfilling our dreams.
has the most certainty rules…
lose the dream, because it is your
love and your wisdom. Nothing can take it away from you.
balanced and harmonious symbol, drawing, or image of universal wholeness.
am a genius, and I apply my wisdom.’…say it every single day and never
miss a day, until every single cell
in your body gets it. When every single cell in your body gets it, so will
ruled my state of consciousness by his certainty,
his presence, his love
for the destiny that I was to unfold, and his gratitude
for the laws of the universe that made it possible.
power in maintaining your vision, inspiration, and purpose within, and in
wisely choosing the people with whom you share it.
Dreams Come True:
cell in your body, every fragment of your consciousness, will start to
harmonize and be with you.
disciplined decision to focus on my dreams no matter what.
genius is one who sees the guiding light of their soul, listens to the
internal message, and obeys.
The Price of Dreams:
be a genius, you must be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve your
dreams, but there’s always a price. There are three forces that motivate
people. The first two are avoiding pain and seeking pleasure; these are
fueled by desperation. The third, inspiration, transcends the others.
you’re inspired, you embrace both pain and pleasure in the pursuit of your
is looking back at your life and realizing that every single event, person,
place, and idea was part of the perfected experience you needed to build
bigger the crisis, the larger the blessing.
you want to excel at something, then let no day go by without dedicating
your life 100 percent to making it happen. Time is precious.
is the key to success?”…”try really
working eight hours a day. I mean, be present eight hours a day.”
start telling people that you’re an international professional speaker.”
masses wait to see it to believe it, but the master believes it then
The Dream is in the Detail:
stay fully present and inspired.”
you get absolutely crystal clear on exactly what you would love, and you
can’t see anything but that,
it’s almost impossible for you not to get it.
best way to do what you love is to love what you’re doing right now.
you know that no matter what happens, your life is serving your dreams, then
nothing can stop you. The minute you truly commit to your dream, watch the
universe immediately bring you the sustenance and the challenges necessary to fulfill it.
Secrets of an Inspired Life:
an inspired life requires mastering some skills, one of which is the ability
to ask yourself inspirational, meaningful questions.
can I do what I love and be magnificently paid for it? And don’t stop
looking until you find the answer…Reframing the questions you ask yourself
offers tremendous power.
second secret to an inspired life is the Law of Greatest Efficiency…anyone
or anything that doesn’t fulfill its purpose automatically decays. The
matter that’s utilized in this universe gets dissipated and redistributed
to those who are willing to fulfill their divine design.
second you stop growing, you automatically undergo entropy.
secret…(this book show you) a more efficient way to listen to your heart
and soul, the inner wisdom that is infinitely greater than any external
teaching. It is the true teacher…
you glimpse an understanding of the universal laws and divine order, when
you awaken your sense of gratitude for the marvelous gift of life, you
become inspired to live the dream you were created to fulfill.
the life you love.
an achievement and blessing journal
Words of Wisdom and Power:
I see my dreams with crystal clarity.
I am worthy of having my dreams come true.
The pain of regret outweighs the pain of discipline.
A genius listens to the guidance of the soul, and obeys.
I am a genius, and I apply my wisdom.
I do what I love and I love what I do.
Chapter 4: Both Sides Now
vital element in living those dreams is the ability to remain centered and
balanced, no matter what happens. In the center are the light, the spirit,
the power, and the certainty that allow you to stay on your path, and they
make up your true nature.
long as you have lopsided perceptions instead of a divinely balanced mind,
you won’t be able to run your life from your heart.
you bring yourself back into perceptual balance, you fragment yourself into
self-righteous and “self-wrongeous” personas, which psychologists often
call your owned and disowned parts.
our act together” means “know your psyche”-BS]
you have 1,000 lies about divine order and balance, you have 2,000 personas,
and all those aspects of yourself compete for your consciousness, lower your
potential, and keep you from remembering who you really are.
personas cause you to over- and underreact to associated events in your
Who Do You Think You Are?:
I say to you is what I’m working on in myself. I’m honored to have
someone like you here so I can learn and grow.”
becoming integrated, I became present and had a real effect on the people.
True and balanced love cannot be rejected…False expectations are designed
to be rejected, because the universe wants us to love.
you stop taking credit and blame, you have the potential to become present,
and in that state of presence, you’re capable of what most people call miracles.
The Healing Power of Presence:
you’re centered, you do not see yourself as separate from divinity or
humanity, and you see human will and divine will as one. That’s when you
have an inspired revelation that tells you what to do, and you act on it
and appreciation can affect matter from a distance, bringing order to our
physiology and power to our intents.
physical senses are bipolar and dualistic, they need some sort of imbalance
must be some sort of differentiation.
we focus and bring out minds to perfect symmetry, the inner world is
birthed—an inner attention, and inner presence.
objective is to discover the underlying perfect symmetry, balanced
proportion, and harmonious order, and allow the inner voice to become
greater than the outer voices. That happens every time we merge our two
sides into one, our emotional particles into light, and our personas into
our true being—the soul.
The World is a Mirror:
have people just attack the hell out of you, know that it’s all true, in
one form or another, and find out that you can still love yourself for it?
Yes, that’s the gift of The Quantum Collapse Process.
has two sides. If you’re honest, you’ll see that you are both saint and
sinner, virtuous and vicious. So when someone accuses you of something,
don’t waste time defending yourself. Instead, admit that you are in fact
possessor of whatever it is they’re attacking you for. Not only are you
possessor, but they are, too, and they’re judging themselves; that’s why
they’re accusing you. If it hurts to hear it, that means you haven’t
seen how that quality serves you or others and you’re judging yourself.
Their gift to you is to wake you up to another part of yourself that you
haven’t yet loved.
The Big Prison
is a divine justice going on, and no mortal can interfere with immortal
justice…We’re not here to judge another person; we’re here to love.”
you do, you do to yourself. To judge others only compounds your own
you teach them how to love, they can transform their lives and make a
deserves to be liberated, but we cannot have free will and freedom until we
get beyond our illusions of infatuation and resentment.
Are You Absolutely Positive?
religion, and some philosophies share a huge collective myth that one day
we’ll reach a point where our negative or dark side will disappear and
we’ll all be perfect, peaceful, and happy. This is not going to happen.
is elated positive thinking and depressed negative thinking, and right
between the two is present and
knows this; the divine order uses both humiliating and pride-building
circumstances to make sure you don’t stray too far from your heart.
You’re not the victim, you’re the creator of your own healing process,
and you determine how long it takes by how quickly you get the lesson.
given all your balanced qualities for a reason—to help you manifest your
expectations on a reality that demands two sides.
not here to be a one-sided being; you’re here to embrace both sides of
here to be whole beings, and positive and negative are the two sides to
teach us that.
Never Say Never
it happened to her. Now she understood.
draw in those things to teach us to love ourselves and the world. We’re
not here to judge, or be positive or negative thinkers; we’re here to be love
that embraces both sides.
more we reveal our whole true self, the more we are loved.
is the instantaneous recognition that crisis is blessing, and love is the
automatic, instantaneous expression of the two sides of life.
can’t blow it. There are no mistakes.
is the ability to take your privates public…
you give yourself permission to be fully human, you approach the divine.
have a psychological boundary that thinks anything outside you is not as good as anything inside you. Your illusion that you are separate from the world
is the basis of the myth of separateness: self versus other, good versus
normally look for differences between ourselves and others.
you improve, you’ll be able to find yourself in anyone and anything.
your perceptions of good and bad or right and wrong will begin to fade, and
you’ll see just living beings. The longer you practice, the more the
invisible walls come down, and you won’t see the distance but the oneness
between yourself and the world.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
I am a human being. I have every trait in perfect balance, and
they all serve
Whatever I see is me.
Whatever appears, I look for the other side and am free.
I take no credit and take no blame.
This, too, is a lesson in love.
Thank you for my skills and opportunities to participate in this
Chapter 5: Who’s minding the Store?
myths of one-sided triumphs and disasters keep us from recognizing divine
order, and one of the biggest myths of humankind is the subject of death.
has never extinguished a species, or a group of species, without birthing a
new species that was fewer in number but greater in organization and/or
death of the old, the new cannot appear.
divine order again. Technology and ecology are just the two equilibrated
sides of consciousness, and they regulate the speed at which we evolve.
They’re both right, and they’re both necessary.
our ignorance, we think that the world is out of balance, and we try to fix
anything we’re ignorant about, including ourselves.
we start to destroy things, we’ll automatically reduce ourselves in the
process and restore the equilibrium. We simply can’t screw it up.
Nothing but Light:
is ordered by an Intelligence wiser and greater than we can imagine.
is actually no creation or destruction, just change in
aren’t born, you don’t die—you are.
is gained or lost.
There is no Loss:
grief, and remorse are simply forms of uncommunicated love and gratitude.
Quantum Collapse Process to dissolve their grief. Not only have we
consistently found what they thought they had lost, but they realized that
they preferred the new form to the old one and wouldn’t want to go back.
possible to completely dissolve grief in two to five hours…through the power of love.
is too precious to spend on illusions of loss and death. Do not fall into
the illusion of what some people call compassion by supporting the myth of
loss. Care enough about them to find the equilibrium, and help them have the
communion of spirit with their loved one; in so doing, you will illuminate
You Want It? You’ve Got It!
long as you’re ungrateful for the form it’s in, you’ll block it from
manifesting into the form you think you want. Love it the way it is, and it
will transform into the way you love. This is very powerful to understand.
Nothing is missing.
instant people realize that they already have what they thought was missing,
they’re free, and they understand that they have the power to get it in
whatever form they want.
of the greatest discoveries I’ve made is that nothing is missing; it’s always
equilibrated, and we’re always surrounded by whatever we love. Just as in
a relationship, where the more you try to change your partner the more they
resist you, the more you try to change the world into your fantasy of how it
should be, the more it bites you. Love it for what it is, and you have the
power to transform it—not because you need to change it any longer, but because love gives you the
power to do so. Love is magic.
Four Great Questions:
have we come from?
are we going?
are we here?
are astronomical, stellar people.
breadth of your vision determines the quality of your life, and the effect
you have on the world.
sage, a wise being with a universal perspective, and what does he talk
about? Eternity. He doesn’t
think in terms of mortal time and space; he thinks about forever.
can’t get beyond yourself without a cause greater than you.
you expand yourself and your vision grows, your resources increase, and
broader domains of space and time are yours to play in.
means to get back to the source. Stay with the inner heartfelt source and
the resource is yours. Love and appreciation connect you to this true source
the greater your vision and patience, the greater your power and scale of
immortal soul is vast; it doesn’t have a limited consciousness.
you are more patient and your vision approaches the infinite, you see things
sage sees the whole earth simultaneously and says, “thank you.”
awareness that in all events of life, there is this nonlocal, equilibrating
anti-event. That’s where the mystery is; that’s where the magic is; and
that’s where your mission, love, and heart are.
evolve by finding the balance in all things and acknowledge the Intelligence
greater than yourself that governs it.
It’s All about Perspective:
it’s just a perspective game. There is
balance, and sometimes we stress because we deny the other side. Everything
that happens is just an event that, if taken out of context, could be seen
as terrible or terrific.
going to get both no matter what we do, so it might as well be in the
pursuit of our dreams.
The Aging Process:
time we fail to see the divine order, we age…every time we see the divine
order, we become present, and space and time dissolve.
finely attuned; and we inwardly see, hear, and feel holistically.
grow through ever-greater spheres of influence and outreach, and we cannot
rule or govern that which we haven’t transcended. To transcend is to
master, and mastery is based upon loving and understanding the duality
within any concentric sphere. I believe that if we want to make a difference
in ourselves, we must have a vision at least as big as our family. To make a
difference in our family, we must have a vision as big as our city. We must
have a vision as big as the state to make a difference in our city, and a
vision as big as the nation to make a difference in our state. We must have
a vision as big as the globe to make a difference in our nation, and it takes an astronomical vision to make a global
ourselves outside the terrestrial sphere, to realize that we’re celestial
beings having temporarily Earthly experiences…
have a global impact, we must look out at the world and see the whole
picture in terms of astronomy, geology, and evolution, not stand here
looking at ourselves and feeling small.
here to learn, teach, and become our true nature, love and light, and those
closest to us are our greatest teachers and students in this school of life.
qualities you miss in someone may appear in other people, yourself, a
beloved animal, or new relationships and opportunities.
not a matter of if the new forms exist; it’s simply a matter of where they
exist, so don’t stop looking until you find them. You’ll know you’re
done when you realize that you wouldn’t exchange the new form for what
seemed lost. When you see the blessings, you’ll experience a moment of
silence and stillness, a tear of inspiration.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
I look at great spans of time, and see great order.
In love, there is no loss.
There is a vast intelligence running the world, and it is in
Death is an illusion; life just changes form.
I have a great vision, and money flows in to help me fulfill it.
There is nothing to fix but much to love.
Chapter 6: Relationship
center point is what every human being already is, yet elusively still
seeks. True love is our ultimate objective, whether we’re aware of it or
purpose of all relationships is to dissolve the barriers that keep us apart
from recognizing the love that already is, and expressing the love we
purpose of relationship isn’t happiness; it’s a combination of happiness
and sadness, which makes up fulfillment.
sadness just means your buttons are being pushed and you’re seeking the
parts of yourself that you haven’t loved yet.
are nothing but lopsided perceptions, and people come into your life as
teachers to point them out to you. The ones who push your buttons the most
are your greatest teachers.
means thanking others for bringing to your awareness those areas where
you’ve lied and not loved, and for being grateful that they’ve given you
this opportunity to love.
you can’t wait to share a message from your heart, your students can’t
wait to hear it.”
every single person is an overwhelming desire to fully express their
divinity, the absolute spirit of love that they have and are.
only thing that truly satisfies the soul is love and appreciation, and when
we feel and express these feelings, we feel fulfilled.
The Purpose of Marriage:
is not about happiness, unless you redefine the term happiness as fulfillment, which is the synthesis of both
positive and negative emotions. Marriage was never intended to be one-sided.
the purpose of marriage can free you from an extremely pervasive myth that
is the source of many marriage breakups. The purpose of marriage is to teach people how to
fully love themselves, their owned and disowned parts.
any relationship, except during moments of presence and unconditional love,
you’ll oscillate between liking and disliking a person as you fluctuate
around the center point of love. Love is not a static state that we reach
and then stop; it is a constantly growing and expanding force.
all they did was support, support, support you, you’d do whatever you
could to confront and challenge them.
need somebody who can stand up to me. I want some challenge.”
are times when it’s important to be soft, and times when it’s vital to
the game. Master it.
The 12-Year Itch
couldn’t appreciate what he presently had as long as he compared it to the
fantasy. He wasn’t present; he was living in the past, and that so-called
past pleasure and his present pain were a team.
it all out and dissolve his illusion.
then saw that the negatives and positives were equal, and at that moment,
he started appreciating his wife.
got present with her, freeing
himself from a fantasy that had controlled his life and kept him from seeing
the wonderful woman who loved him.
you’re not satisfied with your partner, it may be because you’re
comparing them to some fantasy. You’ve created a myth that they’re
supposed to live up to, a hidden agenda that you haven’t even
communicated, and when they fail to live up to it, you punish them. Your
fantasy is all positives and no negatives, which doesn’t exist, and you
beat them up for their negative side, which is exactly what you need to
grow. Your mate is magnificent, but as long as you have the myth, you
won’t have a present relationship. You
must destroy the myth of relationships to experience the truth of love.
deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply
gives you courage.”—Lao Tzu
true marriage vows: for better and
for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health. The vows
tell you in advance that love is not all pleasure, but most people don’t
understand until they’ve lived it. When you embrace both sides, you can
truly embrace the whole person.
Your Value Systems:
run by your value systems. We all have a hierarchy of values, from the
things we think are extremely important, and all the way down to the things
we think don’t matter. Your values dictate your destiny.
values are based on the perception that something is missing, that a void
exists. But the Law of Conservation says that nothing is missing, its just
in a form you haven’t recognized.
scenario met her values; the other completely challenged them. If I don’t
honor my wife by knowing her values, and if I don’t know my
values and learn how to communicate them in terms of hers, then I don’t
know how to care about her.
uncaring relationship: trying to push your values onto someone else, trying
to get them to do what you do and live your values.
are three ways to conduct a relationship: a careless relationship, a careful
relationship, and a caring relationship.
definition of caring is knowing someone well enough to know their values,
and caring enough to express your values in terms of theirs.
going to betray and challenge her at times; she’s not going to like or
trust me at times, and she’ll even resent me, and that’s normal.
I can find a balance
between support and challenge where she grows maximally, and she can
find a balance of support and challenge where I grow maximally, we have a more
a well balanced relationship.
set up rules when your values feel threatened.
when we’re in a relationship, we unwisely think the other person is
supposed to be like us, and we project our hierarchy of values onto them.
purpose of marriage is to teach us to love the parts we’ve disowned, so 50
percent like them and 50 percent unlike them is the ideal reality.
no such thing as a trusting
relationship 100 percent of the time.
person has their own set of values, and no two people have the same
set. They can live up
to their values, but not to yours.
show their love through their own value system and nobody else’s—unless
they’re humble, wise, honorable, and caring enough to communicate in your
person expresses love through their own values. When we honor their value
systems, we realize that we’re surrounded by love in forms we don’t even
The Argument Field:
arguments bad? No, they’re telling you that somebody loves you and wants
to regulate space, time, energy, and matter with you.
has a running checklist on their relationship with you.
of imbalance have the power to close the heart.
moment of presence is more powerful than hours of impatient half attention. Love is a chargeless field,
unlimited or infinite. Give space and you get love; give love and you get
space. Try it and see.
you love someone, you’re the nicest and the meanest to them. You support
and challenge, you’re pleasant and unpleasant, you lift them up and put
them down, you do things for them and ignore them. Those are the two sides
with love, war is also an essential part of wholeness and well-being. Half
the time you need a good war in
your relationship. Conflict
and competition are necessary for growth. We’re not here to have only
peace; we’re here to have both sides of life’s coin. So if you have a
conflict in your relationship, don’t think, Uh-oh, my relationship is failing. No, it’s growing! It’s
challenging you, making you look at yourself. When you self-inspect,
change your beliefs and the way you handle things, and learn how to master
communicating in terms of the other person’s values, you grow.
come to the center as well; if you’re truly in you heart, they can’t
cannot be rejected, but expectation will certainly be. Most people confuse
love with expectation. You can’t avoid having expectations and opinions,
but to get stuck in them is to stop your growth. The Breakthrough Experience
was created to help you transcend your rigid opinions and birth love, and
then dissolve your next opinions
and birth love, and keep expanding as a human being.
you love turns into what you would most love it to be. If you try to fix or
change somebody, they’ll resist; but if you honor and thank them for who
they are, as they are, and love them for who they are, they’ll assist.
When you love people for who they are, they turn into whom you love.
Crisis is a Blessing:
doesn’t empower you. It can, in fact, be disempowering, and it won’t get
you what you would truly love in life.
you repress in the equation of you relationship dynamic, somebody else comes
you want to keep your wife, listen to her. Find out what her values are, and
learn how to effectively communicate in terms of them. Identify and own
where you’re repressing, disassociating, and blaming…”
telling him she was ready to move on, he woke up. It was one of the best things that ever happened to
their relationship…when he woke up, he suddenly wanted to learn about life
and how to keep his marriage growing.
began to empower himself. He was no longer in a state of needing
her, but moved toward loving
he became more empowered like her and she became more humbled, they embraced
more of their sides and met in the middle.
he awakened to the truth of his relationship dynamic, he had nothing to
forgive her for…
was the divine order working to create love.
to their heart and find the truth of their inner love.
out the possibility that they may be living with a fantasy about a mate with
only positives and no negatives. Since that one-sided mate doesn’t exist,
of course they won’t be able to find them.
when they realize that it’s already in their lives are they prepared to
meet their soulmate. Life is funny. The moment you realize you already have everything
you’re looking for, the universe gives it to you.
greatest discovery in life is that no matter what you do, you’re being
supported and challenged simultaneously. The second greatest discovery is
that nothing is missing; it’s just in a form you haven’t recognized.
Widen your experience, and see that it’s all there just in a new form, and
then watch yourself become a master of transformation.
clearer, more balanced, more real, and whole that image is—and the more
you love yourself (because it’s really a reflection of your true
self)—the more power you have in creating or attracting your special
mate…Your soulmate will bring you the greatest experiences of pleasure and
pain, the biggest supports and challenges of your life. That is true love.
people start out in a relationship with masks on, afraid they won’t be
loved for being themselves. But if you know that no mater what you’ve done
or not done you’re worthy of love, and if you see that everything you’ve
done has served, then you’re not afraid to take off the mask. You may not
even wear one in the first place.
outside of you is a reflection and a part of you. Love yourself
enough to love them.
is nothing but love, and all else is illusion. The power to transform your
life is in you heart. You only need the courage to open it.
are no victims in this world. We are all the cause and creators of our own
perceptual experience. Until we acknowledge this fundamental truth, no true
healing transformation or awakening can take place.
more you become accustomed to thinking in this way, the more you’ll be
able to do it in the moment. You’ll be amazed at the effects on
others—and on you—when you transcend a moment of judgment and blame.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
Happiness and sadness are the two sides of fulfillment.
I speak from my heart, and people listen.
If two people are exactly the same, one of them isn’t necessary.
Put them on a pedestal, put them in the pit.
Love them for who they are, and they become who you love.
There is nothing but love, and all else is illusion.
Chapter 7: Divinity
is a metaphor for a mystery that absolutely transcends all human categories
of thought, including being and nonbeing.”—Joseph Campbell
true students of spirit and seekers of wisdom walk toward their own center
all hypocrites when we say we’re spiritual but don’t sit in a state of
gratitude and grace for the magnificence of everything, just as it
is…acknowledge the times when we’re not grateful, know that that’s the
journey, and humble ourselves to our sacred path of love.
root of the word divine means
“to shine”… “God” stands for Grand Organized Design in the
universe…the truth is an underlying order, and it’s our job to discover
is virtually smacking us in the face, but we don’t want to recognize it.
We feel in dis-grace because we don’t acknowledge it in ourselves and in
every part of our lives.
Going to Heaven:
is the closest experience we have to divinity.
The Great Artist:
we’re surrounded by life and divinity, we take it all for granted, like a
fish unaware of the water it lives in. Life truly is a miracle, and miracles
don’t happen by chance alone but by laws and intelligence.
There are No Victims:
a dynamic going on; it’s not a
violent villain and an innocent victim—it’s a team playing out a
balancing duality. When you understand what’s actually happening, you see
that it’s perfectly ordered, with two people teaching each other how to
grow in self-worth and love.
liberation is complete until you realize that your perceptions are your own
cause, and it’s up to you to empower yourself.
are the author of your own life.
I am Worthy of Love:
diseases have an underlying emotional basis…
and illness are the signs and symptoms that the body uses to reveal to us
where we’re not loving. This divinely created system makes sure we get the
message, and wakes us up to the truth that nothing in ourselves or the world
is unworthy of love.
get ill to teach us to love. It’s not a punishment or a mistake. It’s a
matter what I’ve done or not done, I am worthy of love. When every
single cell of your body vibrates with these words, so will you, and so will
Thank you for My Life:
your perceptions sets you free.
we label the rapist “evil” and call the woman “a victim,” we help
them both become stuck.
can live in the past and never get on with the future, and I assure you that
anything you don’t love about your past will affect your future.
yourself enough to love them, and set both of you free.
has two sides, and you can never have one without the other…Don’t wait
to get old to finally understand this. Awaken to the wisdom of the ages
without the aging process. Honor the truth of equilibration.
you perceive as life-threatening or destroying is also life-giving and
creating, if you only have the wisdom to look for it. Find
the balance in your world, and enter into a freedom that few people ever
experience, the liberty of an inspiring and trusting life.
you can see that everything in your life serves you, that no matter what
you’ve done or not done it’s moving you forward, you suddenly see your
own perfection and your heart opens—to yourself.
their metabolic rate low to avoid having energy, and the responsibility that
came with it.
our job to look beyond our illusions or myths and find the underlying truth.
When we become humbled to the Intelligence greater than ourselves, we get
beyond ourselves and open the doorway to expansion.
true living spiritual experience occurs when we acknowledge God’s
magnificence and grace in presence, love, and gratitude.
vitality and power that surge from recognizing it won’t allow us to remain
unchanged. We’ll be transformed into a new person in life…realize that
there is a magnificent and hidden order.
The Myth of Forgiveness:
is a self-righteous illusion that makes someone bad or wrong and then
presumes to judge and pardon. Apology is judging yourself, and both are
guaranteed to perpetuate whatever you judge. The only thing that transcends
this dynamic is love.
of thinking that it was a mistake, feeling guilty, apologizing, and running
that whole illusion, why not see it as some kind of synchronicity? There are
no mistakes in a divinely ordered universe… Go beyond forgiveness, find
the order, and be present with whatever happens.
truth requires no forgiveness.
is speaking in terms of other’s values…
time we judge anything and don’t see its magnificence, we’re denying
is God not?”
you for giving me this
your blessings is wisdom…give thanks, you become illuminated…humbling
yourself until you become receptive to the great permeating Intelligence
that governs this living universe.
night at bedtime you say “thank you”…that great Intelligence would
resonate with you and speak clearly through your heart… every time you
listen to it, you awaken your genius.
genius is one who follows the light of their soul and obeys.
moment we humble ourselves to that infinite Intelligence, we begin to share
in it. We acknowledge ourselves as part of it, and we start to receive the
guidance and inspiration that will take us where we’re destined to go, and
where we would most love to be.
your wisdom. Train yourself to instantly equilibrate emotions on a global
scale, and the more you do, the more certain you will become about the
governing Intelligence that orders life on Earth.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
is God not?
is heaven, ingratitude is hell.
serves, including me.
is missing; it just changes form.
are no victims, just lessons in love.
is a passing milestone on the path of truth and love.
Chapter 8: Genius
certainty was so great that my questions and doubts were overridden, and for
a timeless period, I saw myself as he saw me.
word genius comes from the Latin
root meaning “guardian spirit,” and that’s exactly what great teachers
and immortal thinkers are: creative, guardian spirits who shine light on
what seems dark to others. Our own soul is the ultimate guardian spirit, and
a genius is one who listens to their soul and obeys.
Seven Levels of Consciousness:
is not a matter of intellect; it is a result of listening to and acting upon
the messages of your soul.
Level of consciousness
Stage of evolvement
the top of the scale, you acknowledge that you’re more than just an
individual; you’re connected to and perfectly reflect the universal whole.
in any area of life simply means finding the balance and not being ruled by
emotions. All things are balanced, so why not know this and begin to look
for the equilibrium?
people live between the need and want levels.
than 90 percent of Americans depend on Social Security when they
retire…Most live for immediate gratification without long-term vision,
listening to their senses and not their soul.
the love-to level, you know it’s your destiny and nothing will stop you.
Here, you break through to a new and more inspired level of being.
geniuses are willing to pay the price. They’re willing to make sacrifices
for their dreams…They do whatever it takes. There’s nothing wrong with
that, because pain and pleasure always come together in a pair.
all about framing…suddenly its all fuel instead of baggage.
story you tell yourself about your life is what your life becomes.
have the capacity to change their attitudes and transform their lives...
accountability, productivity, and responsibility…”
asking who could help her and started asking how she could help herself.
yourself, What would I love to do
today? What would I love to do with my life? Ask a different question
and get a different life, because the way you talk to yourself creates your
Seven Levels of the Brain:
fundamentalists function in their respective areas of life. Their minds
can’t comprehend gray; they can only perceive white or black.
seven levels of the brain retrace the seven levels of evolutionary
consciousness. The more balanced your perceptions, the higher you go in
brain evolution and the more powerful and insightful your mind becomes.
grow from impulse, where you
simply react unconsciously to the world, to instinct, where you’re ruled by your emotions; to intellect,
where the mind starts to have some awareness of and influence on your
destiny. In all of those states, the heart is relatively closed and cannot
direct your life. When the heart opens a little, you start to have intuition; and when it opens even further, you get inspiration.
messages, visions, and feelings that show you why you’re here.
When the heart is completely open, it can receive divine revelation; and
when you receive that, you cannot help but have a profound effect on the
world. You will make a
were designed to have clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience—to
have photographic and audiographic minds that are present.
that crisis is blessing, that terrible is terrific; and reach a point where
positive and negative are synthesized into a present, centered wholeness.
extraordinary teacher…Her certainty exceeded all doubts about their
extraordinary and ingenious potential because she taught them as if they
already were geniuses, and that’s exactly what they became.
them as immortal souls inhabiting
know what you’re truly here for.
Seven Areas of Life:
are here on this earth to master seven areas of life: spiritual, mental,
vocational, financial, familial, social, and physical.
you supply these areas with love, they become seven sources of power.
The Seven Fears:
is an illusion that can fragment your full potential. There are seven fears,
one for each of the seven areas of life.
must be able to love failure as much as success, since you fail and succeed
equally and constantly.
fifth fear is that of losing your
loved ones…we don’t so much need
each other as we just love each
both have independent lives, and if either of us were to leave, the other
would still function. There’s more a sharing than a “got to have them”
form of desperation. Remember, if you probe deeply, nothing can be lost,
Law of Lesser Pissers…if you’re given the choice between pissing someone
else off or pissing yourself off, choose them. People come and go, but you’re with you for the whole
trip…Never sacrifice the eternal for the transient.
is a lie, a lopsided perception clouding the hidden order; so I identify it,
bring it to balance, then walk through it. It is then that I turn on my
what must be done. This may not be happiness, but it is
greatness.”—George Bernard Shaw
are excuses for every area of life. If you equilibrate your perceptions in
each of those areas, you gain power…go beyond limiting beliefs and
emotions and going on to birth genius.
The Equilibrating Game:
that you’ve grown into the next level of chaos and are being given greater
challenges because you have greater capacity. If you’re sitting still in a
life of ease, you’re actually dis-easing, decaying, and breaking down. You
want to constantly be on the edge of this life.
the embracing of new challenges your goal. That’s the secret of
evolution—turning chaos and emotion into order and love so that you can
take on even more and turn that
into love. And there’s no end to the chaos, the love, and the wisdom.
can have the wisdom of the ages without the aging process by balancing your
if you clearly defined exactly how you would express love in your life. What
if you made a commitment to keep refining this goal and put it on a computer
so it was more effectively and efficiently planned and fulfilled? What if
you made visual pictures and audiotapes or CDs of it, put it on paper, and
stuck it up all over your house, car, and business so that wherever you went
you’d see it, think about it, and read it? What if you filled your day by
associating with people who were absolutely inspiring; if you read
biographies of the greats in the field you would love to master; watched
their videos or listened to their tapes, CDs, or DVDs; and went to their
exhibitions or live performances? Can you even imagine how that could rub
off? You have divinity
inside you, and you want to associate with those who feel divinely called to
do what they do.
who ridicules you also honors you by acknowledging that you have exceeded
their capacity to understand what you’re about. When people support you,
they obviously think you can’t do it on your own.
with your overexaggerated dream and require humbleness to moderate it and
more effectively fulfill it.
moment we spend not focused on our dreams becomes a moment we spend focused
on our doubts and obstacles.
are simply what you see when you take your mind off your focus. With every
step you take toward the details of your dream, you become more creative,
inspired, and ingenious. Everybody has a dream, but a genius is willing to
define and redefine that dream and keep acting on high-priority actions to
are lopsided illusions to which we compare our reality; they even depress
us. Dreams are realistic objectives that we refine our lives toward and can
vitality is directly proportionate to the vividness of your vision and the
clarity of your calling, which are directly proportionate to how well you
see and acknowledge the divine order. When you see perfect balance,
the inner voice becomes loud and the inner vision becomes clear, and an
incredible amount of energy is available to you.
too, is it impossible to put your mind into the great works of genius
without some of their genius sticking with you.
Words of Wisdom and Power
talk to myself with the respect due a great genius.
look for the genius in everyone I meet.
link everything I do to my mission, and I am inspired by my life.
walk through the darkened doorway where fear lurks, and I turn on the light.
listen to my heart, which awakens my genius.
genius elevates me beyond my daily illusions.
Chapter 9: The Quantum Collapse Process
I speak of love, I am not speaking of some sentimental or weak response. I
am speaking of that force which all of the great religions have seen as the
supreme unifying principle of life. Love is somehow the key that unlocks the
door which leads to ultimate reality.”—Martin Luther King Jr.
an unbound potential energy, unfathomable to the normal mind, but available
to those whose spirit is in a state of grace.
purpose of this exercise is to balance out the lopsided perceptions that
have been running your life, health, wealth, relationships, and self-worth,
and free up your potential and inspired inner voice.
actually Collapsing your false beliefs and illusions about life. When your
false nature Collapses, your true nature is revealed, and it’s
magnificent. Is that worth of effort?
Collapse is really a self-collapse at heart, because whatever you see out
there is you. We don’t love other people for their sake; we love them for
have the trait…to the same degree as the person in question…
your positive disowned parts.
your negative disowned parts.
self-righteous and exaggerating yourself and building yourself up in
relation to it and them.
have the same quality, to the same
degree…it’s not a matter of if,
only a matter of where you have
any admiration or infatuation toward this trait…see that the benefits and
drawbacks are perfectly balanced and this trait no longer runs you.
is still in the way of me loving this
you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you appreciate and love the person.
This sets you and them free.
more you become present about them, and the more love and gratitude you
feel, the more they will tune in to you and think of you, contact you, or
transform in some way. And you
will definitely be transformed by the experience.
Signs of Wisdom and
more open the heart, the more profound the experience.
-Tears of inspiration…emotions
are polarized; love is synthesized.
-Growth in self-worth
as they are.
-Fearlessness and guiltlessness
-Speechlessness and outward
-Balance, centeredness, and
-Lightness and weightlessness
-Nonlocal, all-sense presence of
the loved one
-Experience of light
-Certainty of truth…there is
one great truth, that the universe is filled with love, and all else is an
-Desire to embrace
-Uplifting of the head and
eyes…You now sense the underlying intelligent order, and you gratefully humble
yourself to this hidden Intelligence that is greater than yourself.
-Domino effect of fuller
understanding of past events
is a science of physiology and spirit…
Chapter 10: Conception: Believing is Seeing
you want to achieve self-mastery, you must ask the questions and get the
details to master your life or you won’t build it. The question is, are
you important enough to yourself to take the time to plan?
Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail:
this creation process, you have a balance between making things happen and letting
you set a goal with your self-righteous persona, you’re going to get burned out attempting to accomplish it.
intuition lets me know…and I train myself to listen to it.
list of visions and loves isn’t set in stone.
the vision, it’s wise to say, “either this or something even more
efficient,” to allow the universe to bring input to your dreams.
Vision is Life:
theoretical and abstract are just as essential for a fulfilling life as the
practical and concrete.
you write your Love List, I recommend that you include short-term goals that
are specific, detailed, and that can be easily accomplished; long-term goals
that are possibly a little less clear but will be revealed as you go along;
and visions for your entire life.
there is no vision, the people perish.”
plan to live my life fully until the moment I stop breathing, being
productive and doing something that fulfills me and serves others.”
you realize it or not, you have a yearning for immortality in every area of
you life. You want offspring, subordinates, or students who live on beyond
you; and somebody to carry on your name, energy, or experiences. You want to
leave some effect on society so that they remember you, and wouldn’t you
like to end up with more money at the end of your life than life at the end
of your money? Your spirit knows this and is doing whatever it can take to
wake you up to your dreams and your true worth, but you must listen to it.
The Slinky Principle:
keep you centered, balanced, and moving forward. You reach divinity through
infinite detail, because as you focus on the details, you become more
present with your creations and steadier with your actions. You are
co-creator in a universal system. If your plan is detailed enough, you’ll draw in the
people who will help make it happen. The more vague and hesitant the
plan, the more chaos and frustration you experience just trying to get to
it. So, go for the details!
on my shoulders…
expect to pass through this world but once. Any good therefore I can do, or
kindness that I can show to my fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not
defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”—Stephen
most magnificent thing in life is to be able to get up every morning and do
what you love and love what you do, to be well paid and inspired to do it,
to make your vacation your vocation.
down your dreams every single day, to read and visualize and affirm them, to
focus on and feel called to them…
your mind and days with those dreams, and they’ll become your life.
Setting your Own Course:
genius is one who is willing to define and refine their dream, and keep
acting on high priority actions to fulfill it. Someone with a mission that
extends far greater than any concern of success or failure is unstoppable.
Your Love List:
you don’t act, you’re just writing empty words.
Words of Wisdom and Power
am a star; my destiny is to shine.
am a master of details, and I see my path clearly.
am the author of my life.
has the most certainty, rules.
truth of me is light.
is the power, I’m the vision; we’re the team.
Chapter 11: Materialization: the Blueprint of Creation
purpose is the “why” that draws to you the “hows” in order for your
“whats” to come true.
a meaningful why, little will happen.
are many levels of excuse in answer to the question, “Why aren’t you
self-actualizing your life and living exactly the way you would love it to
be?” and they’re all based on fears and forms of guilt.
Define your dreams …2. Ask yourself
what’s in the way of those dreams.
lessens the power of your inner world are your exaggerated and minimized
perceptions in the seven areas of your life. Those are the fears and forms
of guilt behind your self-limitation. The Breakthrough Experience is about
dissolving the lopsided perceptions in the seven areas of life and freeing
up your spirit to soar and fulfill.
they can do it, I can do it!”
you studied 180-plus minutes a day on the topic you have chosen to master,
you could be at the cutting edge of your
field at the end of two years.
you understand the truth of reflective consciousness and you follow a simple
strategy, the sky becomes your limit.
Being, Doing and Having:
our nature to grow and expand our consciousness and outstretch every quality
of our lives. Anyone who doesn’t self-destructs because they’re not
fulfilling their divine purpose of continued evolvement, expansion, and
exchange… “Giving” is something of a myth, for it can’t be done
without receiving… The master recognizes and transcends the myth of giving
by knowing it’s simply a form of exchange and transformation…receiving
in exact equilibrium.
awakened to others and your own hidden agendas.
way to maintain presence is simultaneous fair exchange.
is due when services are rendered.”
What is your True Value?
you value yourself, don’t expect others to.
ask for what I want; they pay it. It’s that simple.”—Harrison Ford
universe is asking you, “what is your value?” and waiting patiently
until you finally wake up to it.
mission statement will reflect the purpose you’re willing to live,
regardless of pleasure and pain, or whether people like or dislike you, own
or disown you. It transcends concern of success or failure. This is your
moment to decide what you would love to dedicate your life to, so
The Manifestation Formula:
Materialization formula is your blueprint for creating what you love. Purpose plus thought
plus vision plus affirmation
plus feeling plus writing things down in space and time plus taking
action with energy on matter plus being
thankful, manifests things. Dreams are just a matter of
discipline; this formula makes dreams possible.
all seven areas of life to your purpose
about what you would love
what you would love
what you would love
what you would love…The four most powerful creative feelings are
gratitude, love, inspiration, and enthusiasm.
what you would love
on what you would love…Seven Quality Questions of
Self-Actualization…Your objective is to make your avocation your
a) What would I absolutely love to do in this life?
b) How do I become handsomely or beautifully paid for it?
c) What are the seven highest-priority action steps I could complete today
that would enable me to begin doing what I love?
d) What obstacles might I run into and how do I solve them in advance?
e) What worked and didn’t work today?
f) How do I do what I would love more effectively and efficiently?
g) How did whatever I experienced today, whether positive or negative,
serve me and my purpose?
what you would love
thankful for what you would love
didn’t pick my profession, God picked me, and I mustn’t ever forget the
moment I was called…”
let anything enter my mind except my dreams…”
I couldn’t wait to see my patients, they couldn’t wait to see me; if I
became inspired about what I was doing, people would get inspired about it,
too…people are drawn to order, organization, and clarity…”
organizing, thinking, and dreaming…until I felt I was going to be a
success…if I humbled myself to an Intelligence greater than myself, that
miracles would happen…
single person has a vision, an inspiration, and a gift inside. Everyone has
a calling and a commitment and has the power of genius. But you must be
willing to organize your life and let nothing stop you. If you have a dream,
then carry it through the days of your life and don’t let anything keep
you from it—and you’ll awaken your genius…you have a vast destiny that
neither you nor I can fully comprehend as yet.
diligently for your own liberation.”—The Buddha
people as if they were geniuses, and that’s what they become. I attempt to
speak to the part of you that already knows all this and more, to wake it up
and help it come forward to direct your life.
your own affirmations, and don’t stop saying them for two years before
deciding whether they worked or not.
are the seven highest-priority action steps I can do today that will help me live my mission or fulfill my purpose
of all of my most significant achievements, and blessings.
Words of Wisdom and Power:
What would I love to do?
If they can do it, I can do it.
I maintain fair exchange in everything I do.
I set a value on my time and life, and I receive what I set.
I fill my life with high-priority actions because time is
Did I do everything I could, with everything I was given?
Chapter 12: Completion:
mind dictates your destiny, and your dominant thought determines your world.
Don’t just repeat the words I’ve given you; become them. Say them as if your life depended on them!”
why it’s so important to awaken to your purpose and to Collapse any
illusions distracting you from being grateful for your life.
Passing the Torch:
called “passing the torch.” If you have only one of those moments in
life, your life is worthwhile.
quality of your life is directly proportionate to your feeling of
productivity and to the service you bring to this world.
you would love to be a writer, sit down and begin writing and help others do
part of self-mastery is knowing when to speak and when to remain silent. To
those who believe, no proof is necessary. To those who don’t, no proof is
possible. Waste no words on those who seek not. Sometimes silence is more
powerful than speech. Be wise in your selection of torch carriers.
message rolls downhill…The quicker you gather information and the faster
you give to others what you’ve learned, the more you remember.
Illusions Also Serve:
once-believed truth eventually becomes another illusion on the next level of
don’t experience challenges that are beyond us.
not here to be one-sided, we’re not even here to be happy—we’re here
truth has never been in the hands of the masses; it has always been in the
hands of the masters in every
truth requires perfect accountability for one’s own perceptions and
involves an infinite progression, and you’re never done.
prefer that when I’m 100 years old, I’m taking on even more
accountability than I do today. If I am, I’m still alive. If I’m not, I
died long before my bodily death.
The Truth about Therapists:
love and emotions are feelings, but love is a truth, and emotions are lies.
their victimhood and helping them weaken themselves…detouring them from
the accountability for their own cause and effect…
love…challenges them and equilibrates these lopsided illusions for the
sake of truth.
find out how it served them and they’re liberated.
helper and teacher, and there was nobody victimized in the first place.
are definitely therapists who are awakened, self-actualized beings…
truth really does set you free, and the power of your open heart will affect
the people around you.
undergo a temporary identity crisis. This phenomenon is absolutely essential
to growth, and the bigger the leap, the bigger the crisis.
humans, our charges are called “emotions,” “belief systems,” and
“values.”… We react differently to the world according to our old and
a different person, and that is both painful and pleasurable.
demands this. You must go through some degree of an identity crisis to grow.
constantly shedding and renewing. Having identity crises is exactly where
you want to live, though, because maximum growth occurs at the border of
chaos and order.
comes to a seminar thinking, I want to
be exactly the same when I walk out as when I came in, because that’s
not the wisest use of time, energy, and money.
heart is wiser than your intellect regarding human duality. It knows and
feels the divine order, and it’s humble enough to ask your soul for
already are perfection.
what evolution demands, consuming ever-greater illusions to birth increasing
people who became immortal were the ones who were willing to do things that
most people wouldn’t dare to try. They didn’t listen to what people
said; they listened to their hearts.
won’t, because they don’t allow themselves the true power to imagine it.
They won’t understand the drive and the depth of the motivation because
they’re living from the suicide-survival-security-social level, instead of
from the spiritual self-actualization perspective.
we’ve ever met, no matter what they’ve done or not done, is a genius
deep inside. It’s our responsibility to identify and reflect that in them
about this: If there is a Creator, what did that Being create the universe
from? There wasn’t anything here before, so it must all have been created
from the substance of the Creator Itself. So what are you? You are a tiny
piece of the body of God. May you forever love so you may live up to it.
love and gratitude appears to be every human being’s highest priority.
obituary will reflect the way you feel about yourself and your life:
positive, negative, or loving.
is precious, and we sometimes forget that.
this to be true: when you have love, you see love; when you live greatness,
you’re surrounded by nothing but greatness; and every single human being
has love and greatness inside them just waiting for the day it can come out
The Ten Daily Pillars of Wisdom: